Time magazine internet dating
But, says Lewis, his data suggests that if someone — more likely a man, according to the data — makes the first move, and overcomes his fear of rejection, online daters realize the pool of potential partners may be wider and richer than they had previously imagined, and they tend to initiate more interracial contacts and to respond to ones that come their way more often.Lewis is the first to admit that the study is small and has obvious limitations.In 1983, Pat Benatar declared "love is a battlefield," one of the truer phrases ever to be laid down on wax.Unfortunately, the ongoing war is one that's highlighted whenever Valentine's Day approaches.White folks, both male and female, overwhelmingly made more contact with whites, which is hardly surprising since there are more white people on the site to choose from.White folks were the most likely to seek out people of another race.Minority groups (those who identify themselves on OKCupid as black, Hispanic, Indian or Asian) were much more likely to stay in their own racial lane when in search of mates online. They were more likely to contact white guys than other Asian guys, which my Asian girlfriends tell me is because, in part, they’re not fans of the traditional role that girlfriends and wives have played — and continue to play — in many Asian societies.They were more likely to respond to white guys too, but then again, all races were most likely to respond to white guys.
Lewis examined the interactions of 126,134 newly signed-up members of the online-dating website OKCupid over two and a half months.
We also went on a few dates to see if the services could pair us up with compatible people.
So, check out the blurbs below for micro-reviews of each online dating site, or click through for full, in-depth reviews that chronicle our dating exploits.
The Internet, thankfully, allows us to hunt for our true loves—or even booty calls—without ever cruising bars, joining book clubs, going on speed dates, or even rolling out of bed and getting dressed.
We've reviewed five high-profile online dating sites and ranked them based on features, usability, and price.